>if you don't get consent and have sex with someone while
>drunk they can wake up tomorrow and say you took advantage.
>
>I have NEEEEVVVVERRRRR taken some booty. Never needed too. But
>I've been drunk with a date who was also drunk and we had sex.
>If she woke up and said I took advantage what's my defense?
>

This. This is your defense. The truth. If she lies she lies. And the truth won't always save you. But the truth wouldn't save you if you were both sober either.


>and like I shared before. I had a female friend who got drunk
>with a friend of ours and they had sex and the next day he
>said she took advantage of him. Dude used to get black out
>drunk. Knowing her back then I could definitely see her
>initiating sex. She laughed at dude and thought he was joking
>but then said he was dead ass serious.
>
>He was a big dude and she was much smaller than him. But
>still, how does that play out if he goes to authorities?


In our legal system? Not well. But not everything is about legality. He needs to find other avenues of support and maybe confronting his "aggressor" that early in the process of healing wasn't the best manner.