I also know I'm pretty sensitive and never did anything that was really foul.. I pressured some and maybe got frustrated but never crossed the physical line or drew stuff out.. the worst stuff I did was more along the lines of losing interest after the fact or not saying no myself when I wasn't really into it. but your right it's hard to know for sure because folks will represent something when they really feel something else. but I'm glad I took and gave the opportunity to resolve these things.