I think money is a big factor for men asking women to get married. But I honestly don't think many people find it necessary anymore.

I am a single mother, with a good income and the only thing I wish I had was a more involved father. Would that have come through marriage? Possibly, but there is no guarantee.

I also made more than all the men I dated so legally marrying them would be a big financial risk.

Two people need to define love and family for themselves.