>I can't imagine we're feeling each other and it not carry
>over to the bedroom. Like, the problem isn't inexperience....

My guess is one problem bring fearful of being hurt and/or feeling used. Perhaps, the person believes that sex prevented her from developing a deep emotional connection with her past partners, so she decided to take a different approach.

I know that sexual compatibility is huge! Same goes with finances, intellectual compatibility and so on.

I don't like placing rigid parameters on relationships and expect good things to come about. However, some people believe what they believe without taking into consideration that it may come with consequences.

Lastly, I don't want to make someone feel bad for wanting what they want. I do hope that they will keep and open mind and be willing to take chances.