if you're in a romantic relationship there's a certain level of sexual intimacy that goes part and parcel. I don't think (hopefully) anyone here is talking about casual dating or just general lifestyle because in that case who cares.

But sex, emotional availability, affection, etc...are kind of the 'We going steady!' package...I don't think you can just say 'Well it's my personal choice' when you also have to factor in your partners feeling.

>about why people do what they want to do with their bodies,
>lol.