>Sex is pretty great. But if the emotional connection, love
>and trust aren't there... it pretty much sucks.
>
>However, I'm also not about to up and get married in 6 months
>like a lot of those couples do.
>I'm fine with never marrying, so if he's that type of
>celibate, then it's a no go.
>
>I'd also be really interested in his reasons.
>So we'd probably talk quite a bit about sex even though we
>weren't having it, lol.
>

If I was to go ahead and deal with someone who wants to be celibate until marriage, the only way I would agree to such an arrangement was if there was a finite time period for celibacy. Like you would not deal with someone who wants to get married within 6 mos(which I actually agree with you), I can't be with someone for 3 years plus with no intimacy.

I understand the need to be emotionally connected with someone. I understand the need to be equally yoked. I understand the need to have things in common and have similar as/or complimentary goals, beliefs, etc.

But, if I am going to get myself involved with someone like this, then we gotta get married! Otherwise, it is a waste of time.