Sex is pretty great. But if the emotional connection, love and trust aren't there... it pretty much sucks.

However, I'm also not about to up and get married in 6 months like a lot of those couples do.
I'm fine with never marrying, so if he's that type of celibate, then it's a no go.

I'd also be really interested in his reasons.
So we'd probably talk quite a bit about sex even though we weren't having it, lol.