Women are a mystery to me. Been with my wife for 16 years, and I'm really close to my mom and sister. And I try my hardest to be as sympa/empathetic as I can be. But STILL, they be doing things that make me scratch my damn head sometimes.

Anyways, I say go on the trip. Enjoy yourself.

If the time presents during the trip, disclose all the stuff you posted here, in the name of being open. But for sure, do it after the trip is over.

And if it doesn't work out, I hope your find your Minka Kelly in the end.

...and PS, I still to this day ask my wife to show more interest, or be more affectionate, express her love, etc. Some people are just like that. I've learned to read between the lines when it comes to her expressing love.