>>went away for a week and she didn't even text until I
>>addressed it 5 or 6 days later
>
>Grounds for a quittal (c)
>
>>she doesn't even want to meet at her place to head out but
>would rather meet at the party.
>
>something she'd rather you not see at her place? hmmmm
No I did come over everything looked as it should. We had a contentious back and forth the day before so I could see her needing some space


>>Says she's not good with expressing feelings
>
>ROFLMAO...what woman in the history of humanity hasn't been
>good about expressing her feelings? FOH

In her defense her dad was never in the picture and was abusive towards her mom. Her mom has her own issues so I can see that. She can certainly express negative feelings

>
>>I text and she rainchecks.
>
>First time ever? pattern? need more info.
First time ever and with no follow up suggestion which is what bothered me

>>any day in mind to reschedule for? No reply until Monday!
>
>I'd have hit her with the "Can't. Busy" when she finally
>deemed you worthy of a reply and KIM
I did and that's when she came back with the woe is me


>>Asking if I have plans. I'm like yeah I have plans so she's
>like >"sad face no one wants to hang out with me" so I'm like
>how about >later in the evening? "She says just kidding!!?
>Have fun.
>
>The classic passive aggressive woe is me BS. RED FLAG

Yeah I recognized it too

>>We have a 4 day beach trip planned starting Thursday and
>come
>>back Sunday. Am I walking into a trap? Like this is all just
>>pretend to ultimately break up? Not feeling that.
>
>At this point you need to turn into Iceberg Slim and be
>cold...no beach trip, no phone, no nothing. RUN NOW

Yeah I took her number out of my phone and might just not even text her back if she reaches out with a time to meet. At least a 50% chance she has someone else she can take