privilege of leaving a woman to be a single mother?

Are you saying that the repercussions of a man leaving a woman to be a single mother are in his best interest when economically(child support), physically(prison) and socially(stigmatized stereotyped and if he has any type of deep feelings emotionally fractured) are a privilege?

If we look at the history of Black families post overt physical slavery we know this fatherless issue did not spring up until the late 60s and 70s.