a pathological self-victimization that is self-sabotaging.

Do you have to worry about walking to the cornerstone late at night if you run out of toilet paper?

When you hear something stir in the other room late at night...do you worry about possibly getting raped?

Do you have to navigate unwanted sexual advances while commuting to work?

Do you need to spend time, money and effort every morning on your general appearance as a condition of your status at work and other social environments?

How much does your barber visit cost?

I could go on.