>i know my wife hit me with getting plastic surgery recently
>in my head before she brought it up i was like hell naw
>after talking to her im like,,,,not my preference but if you
>want to
>
>i think two things people underestimate in marriage is
>communication and pride
>if you can communicate and take pride out of some
>situations...man you can get far

true. some deal breakers you cannot forsee. however, i was thinking of the typical ones that people consider dealbreakers (e.g., physical and emotional abuse, fraud, cheating, theft). i didn't consider plastic surgery a deal breaker. then again, i have no strong feelings about it in most cases. for me, deal breakers are closely related to standards. i think people have certain relationships standards that are set and those standards aren't discussed in relationships, much less prior to marriage.