we don't want to assume nor negate the sexual agency of women, and how power relates to all interactions.

Was Monica impressionable and subject to the highest forms of power, MAYBE, but this also doesn't take away the reality that she ALSO desired Bill to attain some form of power, AND that she enjoyed it as well. the very fact that she was slut shamed, because of HIS infidelity, while simultaneously being infantilized by dudes like you and deej only underscore this dynamic

but i'm beginning to understand why akon, lfresh, and sowhat talk to you the way they do.