Along the lines of 'While I maintain I did not rape her, that doesn't excuse my behavior that night and subsequently nights. As I look in my daughters eyes I hope that they, or anyone's daughters, sisters or mothers for that fact, will grow up in a world and feel safe and not target because they are women. To my accuser, all I can do is apologize for my behavior that night and to tell her that I sorely regret my actions that have brought her pain and distress...go into the whole personal growth thing...etc"