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Topic subjectOf course men play games. Lol
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13058493, Of course men play games. Lol
Posted by BabyYoda, Thu Aug-18-16 01:47 AM
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>>As far as your situation that you shared with another
>>poster,it seems to me that dude is playing games and/or is
>not
>>into you enough to set up a date, hang out session or
>whatever
>>you would call it. Otherwise, he would respond via text or
>>better yet call you to confirm an outing with you.
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>But seriously, I figured as much. I'm a direct, clean break
>kinda person, so I'll have the "i'm not interested" convo and
>have had it several times. Crazy how many people don't favor
>the direct route.


Because rejection is a hard pill to swallow. It is also a hard pill to administer to someone. You have many people who like to indirectly reject someone which I find a bit cowardly. If you don't wanna be bothered, then say so. You don't have to be mean about it. There is a respectful way of letting people know that you aren't interested.
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>>If I was you, I would not bother unless he wants and acts
>>upon setting up an in person outing with you.
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>He's cancelled. I'm just trying to figure out how to get him
>to stop watching my SC stories. I'm tempted to block him but
>that makes it seems like I feel a way. When I'm done with
>people I'm just annoyed when I'm reminded of their existence,
>that's all.

I understand, but I would suggest not being concerned about his feelings and be more concerned about your peace of mind. If blocking him will prevent him from watching your stories, then so be it. He is a man, so he will get over it and move on.