>it was the end of our workday
>two men approach the exit ahead of me
>one stepped a side
>one held the door...
>
>as we're walking down the stairs I go, "why y'all make me go
>first?"
>one guy was like, "because we're gentleman"
>
>right...
>
>here's how it showed up for me...
>when it's quitting time, I'm out like a bat out of hell
>(no lie)
>we're walking down two flights of stairs
>I'm in heels
>I'm moving too slow
>why I gotta go first?
>lol
>
>sad but true
>everybody not in a hurry...
>

I get that. If I know I'll probably take my time I want others to go ahead and not stand around for me.

If the door self shuts I'm likely to hold it open so it doesn't swing shut in anyone's face. Otherwise I'll probably just swing it open and leave it that way for the next person following.