>is your lady with you during the meet ups
>do you invite her?
>


this is new territory

we both have busy outside lives

so for me its not exactly an event of note but more like something you do thats on the way to doing something else. i mean in the context of having a coffee.

Its an interesting thing, the relation i now have with the ex is limited, its not grown past short hangs or text and I think we both understand that this is the lay of the land.

I've mentioned the ex to my girl, she understands that we will communicate at times, especially once I explained it that my ex has spent the last two years recovering from a near fatal illness