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13036890, what advice you giving to a kid getting bullied at school?
Posted by SooperEgo, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
for the sake of the poll, let's asssume that the bully will win 10/10 fights. the kid being bullied has no chance. and this ain't no after school special. you can't go over there and teach him to box and then send him to school to do what craig did to debo.

how should the bullying the handled?

Poll question: what advice you giving to a kid getting bullied at school?

Poll result (12 votes)
get a weapon and use it on the bully (3 votes)Vote
tell the teacher/principal/school resource worker (2 votes)Vote
find somebody tougher than the bully & get them to whoop their ass (2 votes)Vote
fight the bully every day & get beat the hell up every day (5 votes)Vote
pray on it (0 votes)Vote
something else short of moving with his auntie & uncle in bel air (0 votes)Vote

  

13036896, It really depends on the school. At a good ass private school, it
Posted by -DJ R-Tistic-, Wed Jun-22-16 12:22 PM
shouldn't be happening at all...so you should tell the admins.

At a hood school? A few options. Yeah, fuckit, use a weapon that ain't too bad...no knife or gun, or even a bat. But a good book upside his head. Or....have the older cousin step in and challenge. Or...........if it's really that necessary, have the kid's dad challenge the bully's dad, basically lettin em know it ain't cool. If he has a single mom, then get your hood auntie or girl cousin to challenge her and whoop her ass.
13036903, tell the admin, if they don't respond appropriately and the child is
Posted by Cenario, Wed Jun-22-16 12:29 PM
struggling with the issue, get em out the school at all costs.
13036911, what style of bullying? lunch money? head dunked in the toilet?
Posted by Kwesi, Wed Jun-22-16 12:34 PM
i'd probably invite the bully and they family over to my house to talk about it.

but i be lunchin, so...
13036919, he gotta try everything. one dont work, move to the next strategy
Posted by Government Name, Wed Jun-22-16 12:37 PM
13037124, RE: he gotta try everything. one dont work, move to the next strategy
Posted by Lil Rabies, Wed Jun-22-16 08:26 PM
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This. My bully in west Baltimore caught a body at what would have been his senior year. If it's real hood, don't let that kid try to escalate and end up as the first body some real thug catches. I took some l's from dude, but I am still breathing. Not all bullies are wanksters.
13036921, Put fear into the muthafucka's heart. Get the cops involved if you can.
Posted by Lardlad95, Wed Jun-22-16 12:37 PM
I mean scare the shit out of that little shit bag and his parents.

Document everything.

I'm assuming this is violent right?
13036930, 1. Murder his parents.
Posted by Cold Truth, Wed Jun-22-16 12:45 PM
2. Host a carnival.
3. Make chili out of his parents.
4. Invite his favorite band, Radio Head, to the carnival.
5. Feed him the chili.
6. Tell him he's eating his parents.
7. Sit back and enjoy while Radio Head calls him a crybaby.
13036931, Teach the kid how to viciously clown the bully.
Posted by Teknontheou, Wed Jun-22-16 12:47 PM
13037047, aim straight and leave the innocent alone
Posted by rdhull, Wed Jun-22-16 04:02 PM
13037058, if a fair fight is a loss, sneak the bully and beat him senseless
Posted by atruhead, Wed Jun-22-16 04:33 PM
pepper spray and stomp him out

you might get expelled but at least you let it be known you were with the shits

I wouldnt give my kid that exact advice (more like "try to fight back and make an example") but if he figured it out on his own I would be proud
13037063, I'd tell him about when I ran into my old bully at the airport.
Posted by stravinskian, Wed Jun-22-16 04:51 PM
I was on the way to a fully funded international academic conference in Berlin. He was working for TSA, staring at the bag scanning machine.

That was a good day.
13037068, That's fantastic. I've had a few of those.
Posted by Cold Truth, Wed Jun-22-16 05:04 PM
13037093, But...could you beat his ass tho?
Posted by kingjerm78, Wed Jun-22-16 06:43 PM
13037095, LOL. He'd gotten kinda fat.
Posted by stravinskian, Wed Jun-22-16 06:48 PM

And he's presumably fatter now.

So it depends how long his heart holds out.
13037071, teach this kid how to fight. It's an important life skill.
Posted by Atillah Moor, Wed Jun-22-16 05:19 PM
13037080, 1. teach em to fight 2. or destroy muffuggers with a sharp tongue
Posted by double negative, Wed Jun-22-16 05:51 PM
13037094, Give him a hammer to hide in his bookbag so he can go "Old Boy" on his ass.
Posted by DJ007, Wed Jun-22-16 06:48 PM
or Give him a brick so he can knock that motherfucker in the forehead like Craig did Dee-Bo..lol
13037106, girl = tell an adult || boy = brass knuckles
Posted by 2.tears.in.a.bucket, Wed Jun-22-16 07:23 PM
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if he don't stand up for himself he gonna be running from niggas his whole life.

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naw frfr its 2016 A.D. - even little niggas totin' nowdays. tell a teacher / principal & get ur shorty in martial arts.

my grandaddy always said "all the bad niggas is dead or in jail".

later for that tough guy shit. every nigga aint built for that action.
13037115, how old?
Posted by imcvspl, Wed Jun-22-16 08:06 PM
really depends on how its happening? up to maybe 8 there's a lesson to be learned for both kids. for the victim they should be outspoken when it happens. Like shout stop in the middle of whatever, every single time. SHOUT!! They should talk to other kids about it, and work together to make each other's environment safe. Hopefully they should be able to do this with the openness that the bully could change. Like we could all be cool but you gotta stop this behavior.

Once they older it's really beyond the child's abiliy to impart change so an adult needs to be brought in. A teacher/administration notified every time until the bully's issue is addressed. At the same time the victim needs to be spoken with so they understand that it is not an issue with them, and also can understand that while the bully did wrong they shouldn't be vilinized, they just need help.

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13037118, Stand up for himself & getting punched in the face
Posted by Cam, Wed Jun-22-16 08:10 PM
isn't that bad.
Shakespeare's Julius Caesar line "A coward dies a thousand deaths" is true.

Then I'd show him a bunch of triumphant clap backs at bullies, like this - https://youtu.be/wOh1ek_yncA
to hype him up, and I'd teach him how to throw a proper punch.