she was supposed to poison that one old dude but she killed meryn trant instead...

she goes back to the Jaqan dude and he says some slick shit like 'a girl doesn't know how to follow directions' or some shit

he then drank the poison...and fell out...

then she was all cryin and he got up and was like oh he was nobody (while still being him) and took her eyes away


I don't get all the particulars as far as to his whole thing....and it is confusing....like I don't get the significance of the washing of the bodies but its gotta mean something because when the red chick brought Jon Snow back she did the same thing

but then again I prolly just proved your point because if he 'killed himself' then....I guess they are even