This was in the middle of the day, with lots of people around, and they didn't get within 10 feet, and this woman was more scared then she'd been in her ENTIRE LIFE? She's 67.
I don't smoke, and even I'd say it's fair to ask someone for a light in a parking lot from 10 feet away and not have a pistol pulled on you as you RUN AWAY.
She's talking about "how are we supposed to defend ourselves?" From what? That's just a yes/no question. She yelled she was going to kill them!