I'm truly in awe of how strong you're being...keep trying to stay level headed.

When my grandfather passed in '08 (the patriarch of the family), there were a ton of squabbles, and my mom (who was a daddy's girl) nearly broke down, but appreciated how strong me and my brother were. Because HER brothers (and their various wives and mistresses) were causing a ton of drama.

Add in a bunch of cousins with their shit and it adds up to too much stress.

I'm really sorry you're dealing with this, and praying for your pops to pull through. Keep strong homey