12844839, But how do you know if it's not a big deal to *them* unless you ask?
Posted by Cocobrotha2, Thu Jul-02-15 12:49 PM
>they probably didn't think it was a big deal
>because it's not a big deal
>
>treating it otherwise, treating it as something that requires
>a 'talk' can hint at it being something that it isn't
I think it's better to disclose because it just might matter to the other person.
If they're like "What? Why would I care about that?", there's been no harm.
If they make a big deal about it, better to deal with that now than potentially later when it's been compounded by time and circumstance.
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