my wife in college came to visit and hear us throwing all kinds of f words around and talked to me about it. She went to a progressive NYC private school and was a part of a group of students who led diversity/inclusion groups. But when I moved here I met her friends and yea you get to know someone and it's a lot deeper.

This friend of mine prolly doesn't know any out gay people. It's hard to come out in that church environment so you never have to meet anyone and you can stay jaded I. Your own hate.