Real talk.

Stay in Charlotte as your quality of life is much greater.

The traffic alone will have you wanting to leave in a week.

Granted SoCal is very exciting and diverse but that won't make a difference because you'll have a kid and that will slow down any fun you're used to have or thought you were gonna have out there.

I was born and raised there...don't plan on goin back. In fact, my mother in law is selling her home right now to move to the A.

Don't do it.