You know... she got drunk as hell on her own accord and she's inviting you up for the night... what do you do?

I think my group is like 60/40... Pass on it / All in!

I do know one guy that's admitted to pumping a newly-divorced friend of his with liqour to get her to lower her inhibitions. "These girls play hard to get but once they get drunk, they get loose as hell".

A couple months later, she had a mental breakdown and blames him for it but he doesn't think he did anything wrong.

I think it's fair to "encourage a good time" but I've seen the dude get pushy with women in the bar. That's some immmature shit, at best... rapey, at worst.... so I keep him at arms length.