her bullshit about the gay definitely makes me call and visit less.
a lot less.

because I don't have the patience for it.



it also affected my relationship with a buddy from college.
he didn't handle me coming out to him well,
and I found myself avoiding the topic of who I was dating after I came out.

which defeats the purpose of coming out because
I came out so I could quit dancing around the subject of who I was seeing.

the bottom line is we talk less because I have less patience for his hangups than I once did.



and although I give those two ppl more wiggle room
for their phobia because they are my ppl,
anybody new I meet will have to be cool with the gay if we gonna be even remotely cool.

I get that it's hard for some ppl.
I don't care.
I'm too old for that shit.



ppl that go on and on about black on black crime
and we are our own worst enemy get no burn, either.

I don't talk about that shit in my freetime anymore.
far too frustrating.