maybe someone w/ more experience can explain it to me, but if you're gay, you're still a man, no? why not be the gay prom king? why do so many gay men seem to associate as female?

if you FEEL like you're woman trapped in a man's body, that's something different but it doesn't seem like that's the case w/ most "queen"-type gays.

not trying to be dense. i'm definitely down for an honest discussion/someone to educate me if i'm way off base.