>like. Why the advise our parents gave was so limited. My
>older brother would talk about how our dad only talked how to
>have sex with a woman...than anything else. He was very proud
>of his performance. I’m sure part of the disconnect between
>my mother and I had a lot to do with my dads infidelity. By
>the time she was 19 she lost both parents and in a
>relationship with a man who didn’t treat her...us well.
>
>How then do you sit down to discuss the birds and the bees
>with your children...when you’re just trying to survive...
>
>man listen (c) Raina

that sex is an accomplishment for a male, but I do want to try to steer him away from any people or type of media that explicitly professes this mindset.