and a few bartenders know me by name but its not like we hang out.

besides my community advocate group... nada.

my wife has a few white friends she knows in the dance community.

We even had a white woman she used to work with watch our baby one night for a few hours. That was weird. We both turned to each other and said "we have a white woman watching our baby" and closed our tab out and bounced from the party.

all the white people i know are from childhood, college or through work.