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13037115, how old?
Posted by imcvspl, Wed Jun-22-16 08:06 PM
really depends on how its happening? up to maybe 8 there's a lesson to be learned for both kids. for the victim they should be outspoken when it happens. Like shout stop in the middle of whatever, every single time. SHOUT!! They should talk to other kids about it, and work together to make each other's environment safe. Hopefully they should be able to do this with the openness that the bully could change. Like we could all be cool but you gotta stop this behavior.

Once they older it's really beyond the child's abiliy to impart change so an adult needs to be brought in. A teacher/administration notified every time until the bully's issue is addressed. At the same time the victim needs to be spoken with so they understand that it is not an issue with them, and also can understand that while the bully did wrong they shouldn't be vilinized, they just need help.

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