>Sometimes men were ready to move into a relationship and I
>wasn't. Sometimes I was ready and they weren't.
>
>Be either way, if a man felt like it wasn't his time to do
>something (get married, have sex, meet the family) then it
>wasn't happening.
>
>This was a real wake up call because I thought I could
>persuade, influence, convince and massage a man into doing
>something. But it ended up only turning into a mess because he
>just simply was not ready.

its funny because I've had multiple men tell me that a woman holds the power to get any man's heart. even a man who i wanted but didn't want me back as much has said that.