i've never really had that be code for "still sleep and talk with other women"

but i think age plays a major part of it...

i think the older you are the higher the stakes so you don't have the luxury of going with the flow after a certain point

somewhere between 25-35 one needs to develop a bit more consideration of biological clocks and i'm not really mad at guys who are proactive nor reactive (to ultimatums or heavy-handed hints)