they give you half-truths to give you hope for something more so they can keep fucking you.

JK....

i have the same question tho. asking for a relationship has never worked for me. i always feel like a dude would be lucky to have me, but they be like, nah, i'm good.

in the future, if i can pick myself up after this bullshit i just went through, i'll just keep trying to actively date multiple men until someone i like locks it down. no more of that "where is this going?" bs. I'm not sure men are motivated to commit if they dont sense there are other dudes lurking around heavy. but i dont know shit.