see myself going the Am. white male route either, not b/c I don't think that some of them "get it", cuz I do. I just have a vision of how I want to raise my children, and I would have to 'ease up' on that vision quite a bit, if they were Black AND White(well, not discounting my great-grandparents, & nem), but y'all know what I mean. I'm not trying to go 'The white man is a blue-eyed devil'-route, but I watch my g/f's sister's relationship w/ her husband, where they both wore white African garb to their wedding, covered w/ Adinkra symbols, and that's when "I" was like GTFOHWTBS! cuz no one's buyin' it, Sis.

>> i would almost definitely consider another man of
>color, but an american white male? that's tricky.