>it takes alot more strength,
>imo, to submit than it does to antagonize in a relationship

all i can say to that is my strength/independence should never be seen as "antagonizing".

furthermore, i cannot see predicating my "protection" and "guidance" on any man outside of my father. and even that was in my childhood.

as an adult, imo, my mate should serve as a complement to my full womanhood, not to "raise" me all over again.

but...i ain't gonna fuss. :)

this is VERY opposite of where i am in my thinking/relationship...and my s.o. is involved w/ the nation as well.

either way, i'm glad you're happy/secure where you are.

different strokes.



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