>Urban dictionary is not more information. Also even if that
>is true it doesn't exclude the other being true.

especially since i dont know wtf this different truths ish means

but in the same way you can sit here and tell us what she is considered
in *this* society
i can sit here and tell you what she is considered in Kenyan society
if you want to look at that as a relative then it also undermines your
telling her what this society perceives her to be