if we are talking about a woman's right to respect and her right to choose how she's spoken to and what she's called, then everyone should respect that Coco has called herself Ice T's main bitch, his bottom bitch, his top notch hoe...she embraced that role and that "character" as the woman of a man who was known as a pimp. On the show they had together, he and she referred to herself and her position as "Ice T's wife/bottom bitch."

I don't see the harm at referring to her as such when she openly embraces it. If you aren't deciding for her, then why do you (and whoever else complained) get to decide that the thread should be changed from something she already said is okay with her.

This is not respecting Coco, it's about respecting those who have an issue with the term...because Coco is cool. It's ya'll who aren't, so why make this a "we should respect Coco" issue. She is being respected. Bottom bitch is the highest position one can have with a pimp.