temptation. if you take some vows under God and the law thinking you can cheat and get away with it unscathed, you're the dummy and the one with the most to lose. now, on the other hand, if the woman helping you cheat is doing it because she wants you for herself, then she's just as big a fool, playing herself.
i find it odd that some folks in this post aint willing to admit that there are women whos primary concern is money/sex and not love/attention.