But it's misplaced.

If we're talking about the kinda dancing you see in the movies (not the choreographed stuff), but guy asks girls to dance, and they get on dance floor and mimic each other's moves

That's different.

Dudes don't really do that anymore.

But not because they're too "hard".

But it's cause they're too "hard"

That is, you dance with a girl at a typical hip hop joint, it might start out face to face, but even a casual type dance, the girl is gonna turn around and give you varying degrees of a lap dance.

Realistically, dancing has always had some *subtle* sexual flirtation. Now it's no longer subtle.

Last night, a girl I know, was like, "I'm not like my friend, I don't want that kind of attention when I dance".

White, Black, Asian, Latina - makes no difference.

At least here in the South.

Them folks up north....well let's say i've seen them dance. They need to spend more time @ the reggae spots.

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