>Step 1: Accept that the game does want you to dodge like mad
>and not parry as much
>Step 2: Ditch the Cane (you probably picked up the badge that
>unlocks all starting gear, so I recommend grabbing the Axe)
>Step 3: Make sure you are using the various special items when
>appropriate (this is the best pebbles have ever been in a
>game)

1 and 3 i can do. i'm too stubborn to do 2 just yet. also i'm almost positive i didn't pick up that badge. apparently i missed something in central yarnham

>More than anything, I think you're just getting to realize why
>Threaded Cane is not the ideal "learning to play Bloodborne"
>weapon.

i am seeing that. i'm 4-5 levels from having the stats for the kirkhammer so when i meet that threshold i'm going to ditch the cane as my primary weapon

>Also, the "proper" route through Old Yarhnam is to enter the
>building you are on-top when he starts shooting at you. Going
>across the roof and dealing with the spear-hunter is more a
>shortcut.
>
>And there are two shortcuts to unlock on the way to your
>destination (which isn't the dude with the gatling gun).

ok. i'm going to do some more exploring. maybe i missed a door somewhere. thanks for the appropriately vague hints